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معاملة الأبناء فن يستعصي على كثير من الآباء والأمهات في فترة من فترات الحياة، وكثيراً ما يتساءل الآباء عن أجدى السبل للتعامل مع أبنائهم. يقول الإمام الغزالي: "إن أطفالنا جواهر"، ويمكننا أن نضيف إلى ذلك فنقول: "ولكن كثيراً من الكبار حدادون"، وهم بحاجة إلى توجيه وإرشاد قبل الأبناء.
ويقول ابن القيم منبهاً إلى أهمية دور الأسرة في التربية: "وأكثر الأولاد إنما جاء فسادهم من قبل الآباء وإهمالهم لهم، وترك تعليمهم فرائض الدين وسننه، فأضاعوه صغاراً، فلم ينتفعوا أنفسهم، ولم ينفعوا آباءهم كباراً". كما عاتب بعضهم ولده على العقوق، فقال: "يا أبت إنك عققتني صغيراً، فعققتك كبيرأً، وأضعتني وليداً، فأضعتك شيخاً".
ولقد ثبت لدى الباحثين بشكل قاطع تأثير السنين الأولى من العمر في باقي حياة الإنسان، فإحساس الولد بنفسه يأتي من خلال معاملتك له، فإن أنت أشعرته أنه (ولد طيب)، وأحسسته بمحبتك، فإنه سيكون عن نفسه فكرة أنه إنسان طيب مكرم، أما إذا كنت قليل الصبر معه، تنهال عليه باللوم والتوبيخ ليل نهار، تشعره أنه (ولد غير طيب)، فإنه سينشأ على ذلم، ويكون فكرة سيئة عن نفسه، وينتهي الأمر به إما بالكآبة والإحباط، أو بالتمرد والعصيان.
Hassan Shamsi Pasha
Dr. Hassan Wasfi Shamsi Pasha, a Syrian doctor, was born in Homs in 1951. Consultant Cardiologist at King Fahd Armed Forces Hospital in Jeddah, Fellow of the Royal Colleges of Physicians in Ireland, Glasgow and London, and Fellow of the American College of Cardiologists. Education and certificates He studied elementary, middle and high schools in Homs schools. He studied medicine at the University of Aleppo, and graduated in 1975, and was among the top five in the Faculty of Medicine. He obtained a postgraduate certificate in internal diseases from Damascus University in 1978, and won first place in that certificate. He also received the first degree of honor in the thesis he prepared entitled Cardiomyopathy. He then traveled to Britain to specialize, where he stayed in London, Manchester and Preston for about ten years, during which he specialized in cardiology, and worked as a research fellow in cardiology at Manchester University Hospitals for three years. He obtained a certificate of membership of the Royal College of Internal Physicians in Britain in 1981 and a certificate of membership of the Royal College of Internal Physicians in Ireland in 1987. His work came to the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia in 1988 to work as a consultant cardiologist at King Fahd Armed Forces Hospital in Jeddah, then head of the cardiology department, then head of the intensive care department For more than seven years. An honoring ceremony was held for him; binary; In Jeddah on 4 Dhul Qi’dah 1418 AH in appreciation of his efforts in the field of medical education through books and articles he published in Arab magazines and newspapers. In 1995 he was elected a fellow of the Royal College of Physicians in London, a fellow of the Royal College of Physicians in Glasgow, and a fellow of the Royal College of Physicians in Ireland. He was also elected a Fellow of the American College of Cardiologists. Entered in Who is Who Encyclopedia of Famous Doctors in the World 2000
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